First I want to thank Tony for being an inspiration to me and so many others in God's name! You rock! Last night your facebook status got me thinking. For those who didn't read it ...it was about how we are commanded to love ourselves first before we can understand how to love others. (forgive the paraphrase). I thought about that for a long time. See I believe it's not that people don't or can't find it in themselves to love. It is perhaps that they have been raised to do for others. Notice I said do and not love. I know that in my past I have devoted most of my life doing for others. Sometimes it was for love, but most of the time it was done because of a sense of duty. We get so overwhelmed with trying to be good people in the eyes of others that we fail to see things clearly. I think that it is so easy to become tied to the action and not doing it out of the sense of compassion that we just don't think about why we do things. This all ties into the thought that we need to love ourself first. See mom's know that they can loose themselves with all the things that they have to do for their children, husbands, jobs, church, you name it (I guess this goes for guys too). We get so caught up in making everyone else's life good , that we neglect our own. What we need is to find the balance. After many years of seeking, I feel like drawing closer to God is the only way to find myself and have the right sense when it comes to dealing with others. It pulls me into a real relationship of unconditional love that I can share with others no matter what they (or I ) have said or done in the past. I know that I am truly loved and in turn I can truly love others. Think about it for a minute...do you love because there is something you want in return? If you love out of a sense of desire (for you) then it isn't God's kind of love. True love is about wanting to love someone even if they will never love you. Now that's unconditional!
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